Tuesday, November 19, 2024

Relationship With God

“Come near to God and he will come near to you.”

James 4:8a (NIV)

 

Once we begin to realize how much God loves us, and continue to grow in that understanding by reading His Word (His Love Letter to us) regularly, the next step is to enter into and grow in a  relationship with God.  How do we enter into a relationship with God?  Jesus says we must be “born again”:


“‘Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.’

Nicodemus said to Him, ‘How can a man be born when he is old?  Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?’

Jesus answered, ‘Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.  That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.  Do not marvel that I said to you, “You must be born again.”  The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear the sound of it, but cannot tell where it comes from and where it goes.  So is everyone who is born of the Spirit. . . For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.’”  

John 3:3-8, 16 (NKJV)


Jesus died a gruesome death to take our sin that we might have relationship with a holy God.

A relationship with God begins with repentance.  Jesus began His earthly ministry preaching repentance, continued preaching repentance throughout His earthly ministry, and taught His disciples to continue preaching repentance after He left:


“From that time Jesus began to preach and to say, ‘Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.’”  

Matthew 4:17 (NKJV)


“Then He said to them, ‘Thus it is written, and thus it was necessary for the Christ to suffer and to rise from the dead the third day, and that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in His name to all nations, beginning at Jerusalem.’”  

Luke 24:46-47 (NKJV)


A relationship with God begins with repentance for sin which is met with the forgiveness of God and conversion from death (from sin) to life (in Christ).  There is a new spiritual birth into a new man, having previously been spiritually dead now spiritually alive in relationship with God.  We are born again into a new spiritual relationship with God—we become adopted children of the Father.  The Bible refers to born-again believers who make up the Church as the bride of Christ, a term which represents the closest of relationships and God’s desire for an intimate relationship with us:

 

“And Jesus answered and spoke to them again by parables and said: ‘The kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who arranged a marriage for his son, and sent out his servants to call those who were invited to the wedding; and they were not willing to come.’”              

Matthew 22:1-3 (NKJV)


 “I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy.  I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.”  

2 Corinthians 11:2 (NIV)


“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.”  

Ephesians 5:25-27 (NKJV)


“Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory!  For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready.”  

Revelation 19:7 (NIV)


“One of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and said to me, ‘Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.’”  

Revelation 21:9 (NIV)


“The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’”  

Revelation 22:17a (NIV)

 

If you are struggling with an out-of-balance relationship with food focus on growing your relationship with God.  As your love for God grows your love for Him will replace your love for the world and unholy affections.  As your relationship with God grows He will change you from the inside-out.  No more dieting to try to change from the outside-in which at best usually only produces temporary change and adds nothing to your eternal relationship with God.  The N.E.W. LIFE book below is written to help people who struggle with a poor relationship with food to better health, for individuals in bondage to food and diets to find freedom, and to help those who have settled for a relationship with food to discover the incomparably more satisfying relationship with God and the abundant life that Jesus died to give us.

 

Dear Jesus, we know You desire intimate relationship with each one of us and that it starts with confession and repentance for sin and receiving the Father’s forgiveness for which you died for us to reconcile us to God to be in relationship with Him.  Thank you for Your Sacrifice that we might be restored in relationship with the Father, adopted as His children into the family of God.

 

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Wednesday, November 13, 2024

God Loves Us

“God is love.”

1 John 4:16b

In the Emotional Eating blog post I provided a list of questions to help evaluate if you are an emotional eater or not.  The next step is to evaluate your relationship with God.  Whether you have determined you are an “emotional eater” (and remember, that means overemotional eater) or not it is important to evaluate your relationship with God.  For the emotional eater this is critical—your focus should be to replace your “relationship with food” with a closer relationship with God.  For those who are not emotional eaters, you may still find that your relationship with God impacts your behaviors (and thus behavior change ahead).

It all starts with God’s Love.

What does the Bible say about God’s relationship to the believer?  It is a relationship of unfathomable love by God towards His children:

 

It is a lavish love:

 

“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!  And that is what we are!”  1 John 3:1a-b (NIV)

 

He pours His love into our hearts:

“. . . because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”  Romans 5:5 (NIV)

 

It is an unbelievably merciful, graceful, sacrificial love:

 

“But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved.”  Ephesians 2:4-5 (NIV)

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”  John 15:13 (NIV)

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”  John 3:16 (NIV)

 

“But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  Romans 5:8 (NIV)

 

It is an inseparable love:

 

“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.  For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”  Romans 8:37-39 (NIV)

 

It is a very present, personal love:

 

“Jesus answered and said to him, ‘If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him.’”  John 14:23 (NKJV)

 

It is an initiated, selfless love:

 

“We love because he first loved us.”  1 John 4:19 (NIV)

 

It is a knowable, abiding love:

 

“If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in them and they in God.  And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.  God is love.  Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.”  1 John 4:15-16 (NIV)

 

God loves us with a love that is greater than we can fully comprehend, and He expects us to love Him back, and others, as much as we can with the love He shares with us:

 

“Jesus replied: ‘“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind”.  This is the first and greatest commandment.  And the second is like it: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”’”  Matthew 22:37-39 (NIV)

 

God wrote a LOVE letter (the Bible) to you

Have you read it?

 

Once we know how much God loves us, our love for Him grows, and our growing love for God replaces our love for the world and unholy affections.  The N.E.W. LIFE book below is written to help people who struggle with a poor relationship with food to better health, for individuals in bondage to food and diets to find freedom, and to help those who have settled for a relationship with food to discover the incomparably more satisfying relationship with God and the abundant life that Jesus died to give us.

 

Dear God, Help us to know how much You Love us as revealed in Your Holy Word.  Fill us with Your Love that we may love You with all our heart, with all our soul, and with all our mind.  In Jesus’ Name, Amen

 

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